Cocoon Diaries: Entry #13 – My Mood Has a Menu: On Food, Feelings & Why Sometimes Rasam Is Real Therapy

Soul food for the soul……….

The Culinary Compass of My Soul
When moods run wild and nothing makes much sense,
When people talk and logic takes a nap —
I seek no couch, no lecture, no suspense —
Just dal with ghee or curd with mango pap.

No spreadsheet heals the ache of broken trust,
But soft idlis might bring my heart some cheer.
For joy, a samosa’s always a must,
And rasam (a.k.a desi soup) — ah! — makes all the clouds clear.

So let the world debate the wellness hack,
My soul prefers a warm, well-seasoned plate.
Mood swings be gone with Nespro coffee black,
Or sweet sheera served late — but worth the wait.

Because sometimes, healing isn’t a quote —
It’s just rice with rasam, in a silver boat.

Confession Time: My Mood Has a Full-Fledged Menu

I don’t keep a journal of emotions.
I keep a mental tiffin box:

  • Slightly irritated? Masala chai with extra ginger
  • Mildly heartbroken? Steamed rice + rasam + extra ghee
  • Irrationally angry? Hot samosa. Immediately.
  • Confused? One bowl of curd rice and the problem will answer itself.
  • Celebrating something? Gulab jamun. Even if it’s just Wednesday.

Therapy, But Make It Tasty

Some people go for expensive spa treatments.
I steam idlis.

Others drown in books on emotional healing.
I drown my roti in yellow dal with coriander on top.

And when all else fails, I call for my ultimate, full-body, emotionally-approved, grandma-certified solution:
Rasam.

There’s something about it — that tang, that warmth, that nostalgic little kick — it resets my entire nervous system.

Honestly, even Loki wags more vigorously when rasam’s cooking.

Loki & the Bunnies: The Culinary Panel

Loki:
He knows my moods by sniff level. When rasam simmers, he camps in the kitchen like a watchdog on mental health duty.
(He once tried to lick a spilled spoon. The spiritual connection is real.)

The Bunnies:
Firm believers in chewing your feelings slowly.
They thrive on crunch therapy.
They don’t do rasam — but they fully support its emotional mission from a leafy corner.

Food vs Feelings: A Few Realisations

  • People may disappoint you. But bhindi fry never ghosts.
  • Deadlines may stress you out. But a perfectly puffed poori will forgive you.
  • Long day? Roti + butter = emotional closure.

Fancy Food? Not My Mood.

Look, I respect molecular gastronomy.
But when I’m low, I don’t want mousse that’s been “air-kissed by cinnamon vapour.”

I want thick daal.
I want pickles with attitude.
I want curd rice that loves me back.

My food for thought closing Musings:

So here’s to all of us who measure emotional growth not by self-help books, but by how quickly we can rustle up upma under pressure.

To those who’ve faced heartbreak but healed with a hot cup of haldi doodh and good lighting.

To those who know that real peace is not a place… it’s a plate.

And if anyone ever says “Food isn’t therapy…”
Just hand them a bowl of rasam.
And wait.
They’ll understand.

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