Narcissists are known for their self-centeredness and inability to see things from anyone else’s point of view. Their inflated sense of self-importance and lack of empathy can make it challenging for them to consider the perspectives and feelings of others. As I see more of their tribe around me these days, I decided to delve into this aspect of narcissism and explore how it impacts their interactions with the world around them.
One of the defining traits of narcissism is a grandiose sense of self. Narcissists believe they are superior to others and often dismiss or belittle the opinions and viewpoints of those around them. They may only value relationships or interactions that serve to boost their ego or fulfil their own needs, disregarding the needs and feelings of others in the process. In my recent interactions with a large group of individuals in an official capacity, I find many of us ridden with this tendency to pull down others and belittle them while project or assume their own superiority. And almost always after the unpleasantness they have created, an in-depth analysis by me of the situation gone-by reveals an ulterior motive.
Additionally, this brings me to the next aspect of narcissists which is the urge they have, of the need for this deep-seated need for admiration and validation. They may seek out situations where they are the centre of attention and expect others to constantly praise and admire them. This self-centred focus can make it difficult for them to truly listen to and understand the perspectives of others, as they are primarily concerned with maintaining their own self-image.
Furthermore, narcissists may have difficulty empathizing with others. Empathy requires the ability to understand and share the feelings of another person, something that narcissists struggle with, due to their intense focus on themselves. This lack of empathy can lead to a lack of understanding or consideration for the experiences and emotions of others, further reinforcing their self-centred worldview.
In relationships, this inability to see things from another’s point of view can be particularly damaging. Narcissists may exploit others for their own gain, manipulate situations to suit their needs, and dismiss or invalidate the feelings of those around them. This can lead to strained relationships and feelings of frustration and hurt for those who interact with them.
As I see the narcissistic tendency around me, I realise that their inability to see anyone else’s point of view is a significant aspect of this personality trait. It can impact their relationships, interactions, and ability to navigate the world around them. And more often than naught, they never remain aware of the damage they cause themselves and others – being so full of themselves! While it may be challenging to change the behaviour of a narcissist, understanding this aspect of their personality can help others set boundaries and manage their interactions with them more effectively.
Wickedlyours 
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